What made you decide to talk with your partner about ED?
I didn't like how our sexual relationship was changing.
I was worried that I might have a health problem.
I knew my partner was upset.
I have not talked with my partner yet, but I plan to.
This poll is not scientific. No identifiable personal information will be saved or stored concerning your responses.

Talking With Your Partner

Good communication is at the heart of healthy, lasting relationships. If you have a hard time talking about ED (erectile dysfunction), you're not alone.

One in three men says it's impossible to talk face-to-face with someone about erections.*

It doesn't have to be impossible to talk face-to-face with your partner or your doctor about ED. It's a real medical condition. Think and talk about ED as the medical problem it is. Doing so can leave blame, anger, tension, and anxiety out of the discussion.

Not sure how to begin the conversation?

Here are some conversation starters you could use:

"I wonder if the problems I've been having during sex are caused by a medicine I'm taking."

"Sex is important to us, and we both know that our sex life has changed. We should talk about it."

"I read that having ED can be a warning sign of another health problem. I think we should learn more about it."

Partners can be the ones to start the conversation about ED, too. Here are some conversation starters for partners to consider:

"I love you and know you love me, but lately I think you've been avoiding me sexually. I think it's time we talk about it."

"Do you think the reason we haven't been making love might be a medical problem? Maybe we should check it out with the doctor."

"I know I've been neglecting you in the bedroom and I'm sorry. But maybe a doctor can offer some options."

"You know those ads we've been seeing on TV? Maybe we should find out more."


*In a multinational survey of nearly 3000 men who have experienced ED.

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